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Different Values

Although most individuals respect, value and love others and enjoy using objects, there are others who value things and seem to have little respect for

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At The Bus Stop

After much encouragement from my adult children, four of whom already lived in western Canada, I sold my home, bid goodbye to dear friends, and

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WHEELS – PART 2

Free of family domestic duties in my fifties, I decided to get a bike that I’d enjoy pedalling along the Rideau Canal and Dow’s Lake

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Wheels – pART 1

Life used to be so much simpler years ago. I remember the joy I had whizzing on my two-wheeler along Lakeshore Road towards Niagara-on-the-Lake, unconcerned

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Famous Quotes

“If you want to know how old a woman is then ask her sister-in-law.” – Edgar Howe——— Inside every older person is a younger person

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Fate or Luck?

I’m old but I am still surprised sometimes by the twists and turns of fate, and I am constantly reminded that there are exceptional people

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Las Vegas

Two friends and I flew south to Las Vegas in December 2020. We intended to relax and enjoy a six-day vacation, applaud theatre productions, shop,

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Taxes

What do Seniors get in the new Trudeau Budget? These truths will offend some and get support from others. After reading this, I want you

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The Greenhouse

You may not believe me when I say that the late W.O. Mitchell is largely responsible for the path my life has taken,! don’t blame

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Opportunities

In 2019 I spent almost two winter months in Victoria, BC. One morning I received a phone call from a lady who had a lovely,

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Sicil Coast Line

Siracusa Surprise

It was my seventh trip to Italy, the third time I had travelled to Sicily with my daughter, Lise, and our first trip to Siracusa.

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Kangaroo Island

Alana, my 13-year-old granddaughter, and Gert, my sister-in-law, spent New Year 2003 in Astoria, Australia prior to a week-long trip to explore Kangaroo Island. We

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Special Thanks

To Joan Alexander, Guest Author Joan, it has been such a pleasure working with you for the past several weeks. I was proud to highlight

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Politics

She raised her arm, shaking her finger at me angrily. “Paul Martin, Jr, will be prime minister. It is ordained!” “But he is not even

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What Size Urn Do I Need?

I know. This is a strange topic, but it’s something we should discuss. Deciding on burial or cremation is the first decision to make. When

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Birthdays

I sometimes wonder why some mature adults assign such importance to their birthdays, particularly when they were born so many years ago. Why would they

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George

Adopted before he was two months old, George had no memory of his birth family nor had he any choice regarding the home he would

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Tooth Tales

Her email arrived shortly after Christmas with an apology for not phoning. Unable to speak clearly because an upper bicuspid had escaped during family Christmas

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The Pond

Covered in a deep blanket of snow, the fenced backyard seemed perfect. I loved everything about this house, especially the ceilings: they weren’t stippled! I

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It’s All In The Name

It was one of our infrequent day trips: four middle-aged women, professional colleagues, off to the US for a day of cross-border retail therapy and

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Milestones Patio, Ottawa.

Paying It Forward

Despite Covid panic, my home sold quickly in March 2020. I loved the central location, open concept, and ten-foot ceilings as well as my neighbours,

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Air Canada

1964: Winnipeg I was eight months pregnant with my fourth child and alone in the outskirts of Winnipeg with the children. My husband had traveled

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Sicily Surprise

I’d been to Sicily before so I shouldn’t have been surprised when we drove into Siracusa that summer day. Forgotten in time on Sicily’s southern

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Along Came COVID19

Although the Coronavirus has had an impact on everyone, it severely affected those residing in retirement residences, nursing homes, and long-term care facilities. This segment

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#2 OC Bus, Ottawa

Bus Tales

I took an aisle seat on the number 2 bus that Wednesday morning, surprised that there was an empty seat. The elderly lady in the

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Tony

I’ve been a CBC radio listener for many years. Generally, I’m not listening intently, but, when I hear of an incident or individual about which

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The Dining Room

A retirement or Care home should be safe and comfortable. But these facilities operate Group events which do not always run smoothly. I lived in

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Glenbow Museum, Calgary

Coincidence

In 1905, the year Alberta gained provincial status, a thirteen-year-old boy from Orillia, Ontario traveled west by train to visit his maternal uncles in Calgary.

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A Tribute to my Friend

In Loving Memory of Lawrence I grew up in city centre, a block from the railway tracks. The house, a double with three bedrooms, one

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I often Get Teased –

About many things, I hate to admit. These are my favourites: Storage:  Over the years, we accumulated hundreds of DVDs. I arranged them alphabetically, of

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A Special Memory

In Paris’s Notre Dame Cathedral In August 1976, It seems so long ago. Five family members sat together, Side by side, quiet, respectful, full of

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Little Things

I recall that autumn day decades ago when I entered my future in laws’ kitchen where three aproned ladies huddled around the big white stove,

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What Happened to Nursing?

Prior to 1975 teaching hospitals accepted applications from high school academic graduates who were interested in studying nursing. Nursing students generally studied for three years,

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Keep Them Safe

So many foods are harmful to our cats that we have to exercise extreme vigilance to keep these items out of their reach. The consequences

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The Piano

My mother and I had a very difficult relationship. I spent my childhood and adolescence attempting to escape her domination and overprotectiveness. Although I gave

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The Tree of Life Decanter

I Wish You Enough

My wish for You I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright no matter how grey the day may appear. I wish you

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OLD WOMAN

Then and Now

THEN : I’d never have wrinkles. I’d not allow flab. I’d always be well-dressed. I’d never look drab. I’d always be proper and never ever

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Bette Midler Sings The Rose

Rose

The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn’t already know. I stood up to

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Writing

12 Rules for Seniors

1. Talk to yourself. There are times you need expert advice. 2. “In Style” are the clothes that still fit. 3. You don’t need anger

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Old Letters

Lucky

During my career, I had the privilege of caring for hundreds of people, many of whom boasted exalted rank or financial prestige. Although positive memories

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Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good

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The Litter Box Pop Quiz

Everyone has questions and opinions about the basic litter box. As a fun way to test your knowledge, here is a simple “Litter Box Pop Quiz” for

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This Month’s Featured Author

Joan Alexander